(1) as soon as practicable after a youth is taken into custody under 419C.080 (custody - juvenile) or 419C.088 (custody by private person - juvenile), the person taking the youth into custody wil notify the youth’s parent, guardian or other person responsible for the youth. The notice will inform the parent, guardian or other person of the action taken and the time and place of the hearing

(2) if the victim requests, the district attorney or juvenile department will notify the victim of the time and place of the hearing